Let’s be real: we’ve all been to a wedding where half the guests are hunched over their phones, snapping pics for the ‘gram or live-streaming the first kiss like they’re paparazzi chasing a celebrity scoop. And while we get it—your destination wedding is literally Insta-worthy—there’s something to be said about ditching the screens and living in the moment.
Enter the unplugged wedding. It’s not just a trend; it’s a vibe. It’s about trading pixelated memories for real, raw, and unfiltered moments. And when you’re hosting a destination wedding in a jaw-dropping locale (Hello, Tulum beaches or Tuscany vineyards), you want your guests to soak it all in—not just through their camera rolls.
Photo: Guests all taking photos with their Cell phones of the wedding couple
So, how do you pull off an unplugged destination wedding without coming off as the “no fun” couple? Here’s the lowdown for our Canadian couples planning their dream getaway nuptials.
1. Set the Tone Early
Your wedding website or invites are the perfect place to drop the unplugged bomb. Keep it light, fun, and totally you. Something like:
“We’re so stoked to have you join us in [insert dreamy destination]! To help everyone be fully present, we’re having an unplugged ceremony. Don’t worry, we’ve hired an amazing photographer to capture all the magic, so you can kick back, relax, and enjoy the moment with us.”
This gives guests a heads-up and sets the expectation without being a buzzkill.
2. Make It Official (But Cute)
When the big day arrives, remind your guests with a stylish sign at the ceremony entrance. Think: a chic wooden plaque or a calligraphed mirror that says:
“Welcome to our unplugged ceremony! Please turn off your devices and be fully present as we say ‘I do.’ Don’t worry—we’ve got the pics covered!”
Pro tip: If you’re hosting a bilingual crowd (looking at you, Canadian couples), consider adding a French translation for that extra touch of inclusivity.
3. Lead by Example
If you’re asking your guests to unplug, you’ve gotta walk the walk. Keep your own phones tucked away and encourage your wedding party to do the same. When your squad sees you living in the moment, they’ll be more likely to follow suit.
4. Create a Hashtag for Later
Okay, we know what you’re thinking: “Isn’t this whole thing about being unplugged?” Yes, but hear us out. Designate a wedding hashtag (e.g., #SmithsSayIDo2024) and let guests know they can go wild with pics after the ceremony.
This way, you’re not shutting down the social fun entirely—you’re just saving it for the reception or post-wedding brunch. Plus, you’ll get to relive the day through your guests’ eyes (and lenses) without missing out on the real-time magic.
5. Hire a Photographer
The key to a successful unplugged wedding? Making sure your guests know they don’t need to document the day because you’ve got it covered. Invest in a top-notch photographer (and maybe even a Videographer) who can capture every laugh, tear, and dance move.
When your guests see those stunning shots later, they’ll be glad they put their phones down and lived in the moment.
6. Embrace the Benefits
An unplugged wedding isn’t just about aesthetics—it’s about connection. Without screens in the way, your guests will be more present, more engaged, and more likely to hit the dance floor (or the open bar). Plus, you won’t have to worry about Uncle Bob’s iPad blocking the aisle during your first kiss.
7. Be Prepared for Pushback
Let’s face it: not everyone will be on board with the unplugged thing. Some guests might feel weird without their phones, and that’s okay. Be kind but firm, and remind them that this day is about you and your partner. If they really need to snap a pic, they can do it at the reception.
Final Thoughts
Planning an unplugged destination wedding is all about creating a space where you, your partner, and your guests can truly connect. It’s about savoring the sunset vows, the heartfelt toasts, and the spontaneous dance-offs—without the distraction of screens.
So, go ahead and unplug. Your guests might grumble at first, but trust us: when they’re fully present, laughing, crying, and celebrating with you, they’ll thank you for it. And hey, if all else fails, there’s always the open bar to win them over.
Cheers to a wedding that’s as unforgettable as your love story. Now, let’s get planning!
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